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"We walked out of our wedding reception holding hands as the
crowd was cheering for us. Our car was decorated with balloons and
streamers – so much that we could barely get inside. The back window
said “JUST MARRIED” and I felt like I was floating in the car with my
big wedding dress taking up 90% of the seat. My new husband got into the
car, looked at me and said, “WE DID IT!…. Now let’s get out of here!”
It was just the two of us. Me and him. A MARRIED couple. It was so surreal.
A few days past and we were flipping through our guest book from our
reception. It was full of great advice on how to have a successful and
happy marriage. One note said, “Don’t fight. And if you’re going to
fight – fight naked.” Another note said, “Forgive and forget.” A few
said, “Never forget how you feel TODAY.” And the last one said, “Keep no
secrets.”
Keep no secrets.
I always knew honesty and communication were two of the most
important keys to a happy and successful marriage – so I made it a goal
that day to tell my husband everything. When something funny happens, he
is the first one I text. When I hear exciting news or gossip, he is the
first one I call. When I need advice or to make a decision, he is the
first one I ask for help. And always in my mind I think of the great
advice we were given on our wedding day to, “keep no secrets.”
As the years have gone by, I have realized that there are a few
things that women don’t tell men. It’s just the way we are. When we are
upset – we say “we’re fine.” and when we are sad – we say “it’s okay.”
So gentlemen, today we are going to
keep no secrets and tell you a few things your wife probably hasn’t told you.
1. SHE LOVES YOU, EVEN WHEN SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU: There
are those days when you drive her absolutely crazy – those days where
you are getting at her every nerve and she doesn’t exactly want to be
around you – But she still loves you. There are going to be those
moments where you say something wrong or don’t react exactly how she
wanted you to – But she still loves you. There are those times where you
may have not noticed she got her hair done, you forget to compliment
her on her new dress or failed to recognize all of her handwork she
accomplished around the house – but she
still loves you.
2. SHE KNOWS SHE ISN’T PERFECT: She wants to be the
best for you – but it’s hard to be perfect. She makes mistakes and gets
confused, but she hopes to be everything you need. She may not have
gotten everything done she wanted to, because the baby just wouldn’t
cooperate today. And she may not have dinner on the table tonight,
because time just went too fast. But she is trying. And she is doing her
best – for you.
3. SHE FEELS A LITTLE JEALOUS: She’s jealous of your
x’s. She’s jealous of your co-workers. She’s jealous of her friends.
And she may even be jealous of your friends. Maybe jealous isn’t the
right word, but she feels the need to be the more beautiful thing you
have ever laid your eyes on even no matter how many years you have been
together. Want to make her day? Tell her she’s beautiful and mean it.
It’ll mean the world to her.
4. SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS FOR THAT SPECIAL OCCASION: You
know that time she told you she needed to go buy her friend a gift for
her birthday? She may or may not have walked out of the store with
something for herself and completely forgot about the gift for her
friend.Sometimes she finds the perfect dress that she knows she would
look amazing in. If you catch her hints she drops near birthdays or
Christmas you may just be able to buy her that perfect gift that if it
were up to her, she would have purchased on the spot.
5. SHE WOULD HAVE RATHER GONE TO HER FAVORITE RESTAURANT: Marriage
is about compromise – so that time she went to that boy movie for you?
She would have rather gone to a chick flick. That Mexican restaurant she
took you to? She would have rather gone to Chinese. But she loves you
and wants you to be happy – so she gave a little, with hopes she will
get a little.
6. THE SEXIEST THING YOU CAN DO – IS THE DISHES: To come home to a clean house might be the best thing you could ever do for her. Need I say more than this picture?
7. SHE REALLY DOES CARE ABOUT ANNIVERSARIES, BIRTHDAYS AND HOLIDAYS: She
may have said, “Oh, I don’t care if we don’t do anything to celebrate.”
But really – she is hoping you will surprise her with flowers. She is
hoping you have a romantic date planned. Anniversaries, birthdays and
holidays are the perfect time to show your love – and she will gladly
accept.
8. SOMETIMES SHE IS JUST REALLY, TRULY, TIRED: A
wife’s day is busy – and exhausting – and sometimes she is tired. Just
tired. Just because she doesn’t want to talk that much or make out,
doesn’t mean she is upset with you. She could just be really,
truly, ready to hit the hay.
9. SHE WANTS TO BE BEAUTIFUL FOR YOU: In her eyes,
her body isn’t perfect, but she wants to be that beautiful girl you got
down on one knee and proposed to. With children and age, her body has
changed and will continue to – and she hopes you will love her just the
same. She wants to hear she is beautiful both inside and out. Remember
how you told her how beautiful she was before you got married? Keep the
flame alive by letting her know she’s just as beautiful now as she was
then.
10. THE LITTLE THINGS DO MATTER: They
always say, “don’t sweat the small things” – but in marriage those
little things are what matters. She wants a kiss hello and a hug
goodbye. She wants a simple text saying you love her. She wants a date
night and she wants you to make her laugh. Try to put the toilet seat
down when your done, so she doesn’t fall in when it is her turn. Try to
put the toilet paper roll on, just the way she likes. And try to be home
when you say you will be home. It’s the little things that make the big
things.
11. ABOVE ALL, SHE WANTS TO BE LOVED: She hopes you will be hers forever – just as she promises to be yours forever.
PLEASE –
keep no secrets.
Don’t forget to share this with your man!
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