The Court of Love

    How can you tell that you are in a highly cherished relationship? Usually, the signs are pretty obvious. Read the 12 pointers below that will confirm if you are on the right track. If you cannot tick off all these, then there might be some repair-work to be done! What do we mean by cherished? “Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.” – Oscar Wilde Most marriage or partnership ceremonies mention the word ‘cherish.’ The best definition of the word ‘cherished’ is ‘nurtured.’ Think of a plant which needs water, sunshine, and a bit of tender loving care. Just do that today and every day. The plant or relationship will grow and flourish as you discover each other.

                                  You want to be with the love of your life forever, and he with you, so always make your marriage a top priority (as in every day!). Here are some easy and fun ways to keep improving an already awesome partnership. Even if you're not married yet, you can start practicing these tips to enjoy your relationship even more throughout the wedding-planning process. Grooms and husbands, hold onto this list as well — these rules apply to you, too! 1. Eat healthfully. A 2012 British study from the University of Warwick found that people who consume more fruits and vegetables experience higher levels of mental well-being. Include these foods in your diet and you'll have increased...

Long-time, happily married couples sometimes need to watch what they say and how they say it !                             . At the same time they also need to watch how they respond to what their significant other has to say. Just because you're extremely comfortable with someone doesn't mean you never have to watch your mouth. "Communication is tricky. We all hear words differently (and filtered through our experiences, which are certainly different from our partner's) and we all want to be communicated with in a style we understand," Life coach Jean Grossman said. "I also believe that 'the tune makes the music.' If what we are saying is said in a kind or loving way it feels differently than when spoken in anger or retribution," she said. So what are some things you should never say to your dearly beloved? After speakin...

 Hi people...I got this article from a blogger friend and it actually worth reading....here it goes.... "We walked out of our wedding reception holding hands as the crowd was cheering for us. Our  car was decorated with balloons and streamers – so much that we could barely get inside. The back window said “JUST MARRIED” and I felt like I was floating in the car with my big wedding dress taking up 90% of the seat. My new husband got into the car, looked at me and said, “WE DID IT!…. Now let’s get out of here!” It was just the two of us. Me and him. A MARRIED couple. It was so surreal. A few days past and we were flipping through our guest book from our reception. It was full of great advice on how to have a successful and happy marriage. One note said, “Don’t fight. And if you’re going to fight – fight naked.” Another note said, “Forgive and forget.” A few said, “Never forget how you feel TODAY.” And the last one s...

                                  For most women (and some men too) sex and pregnancy don’t go together. This is because right from the start there have been a lot of myths harboured among expectant couples about pregnancy-sex. However, one should know that sex during pregnancy isn’t off-limits and in no way can cause any damage to the baby or the mother. In reality, sex during pregnancy has a host of benefits, here are a few of them. It improves circulation in the body: During pregnancy blood supply in the body almost doubles to meet the requirements of both the mother and the baby. However, a sluggish circulation can hamper the process. Sex helps restore the functioning of the body with the release of certain hormones and ensures proper circulation. This means the fetus recei...

                                                                 “You can’t stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.” About six months into a serious relationship with my boyfriend, we started experiencing major conflict. Fighting over small things, flipping out over misunderstandings, we just couldn’t seem to get on the same page about anything. This caused me to think about relationship conflict in general, what causes it, and how to deal with it. It’s clear that relationship conflict occurs because expectations aren’t being met. Each person comes into a relationship with certain expectations. These are based on past experiences...

                                                Believe it or not, at one point or another in my life all of these have been a very real problem in some of my past relationships. I’m not sure whether to laugh or cry about it now that I see it written out into such a long list! I’m going to print this out and hang it somewhere I’ll see it often to serve as a constant reminder of what I deserve in life from now on!  The search for the my perfect woman has begun! My Perfect Woman… 1. will not cheat on me. 2. will have the same sense of “clean” as I do. 3. will never put others down to make herself feel better. 4. will treat everyone with respect, including herself. 5. will have a job and/or money of her own. 6. will not nag incessantly....

                                             Doest it still matter to be a virgin as a woman of God? Is it still a big deal  to your future husband if you’re not a virgin anymore? If you’re not a virgin anymore, are you considered a sinner and should you be shameful about it? Long long time ago, losing a virginity of a woman is like a disgrace, even Joseph (biological father of Jesus) thought of divorcing Mary because she’s conceiving without having a sexual contact with him. Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.-Matthew 1:19 A woman would really regret losing her virginity especially when she gave it to the wrong person, she might be...

I learned many lessons in my daily dealing with young ones, especially the female ones...they get disturbed everyday by the opposing sex of which they found themselves succumbing to their proposal (toasting) after several days of pressurizing and flattering. But here are some reasons why I think you should avoid sex prior your colorful impending day of joy... Sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life. Sex is the same kind of powerful force. Sex is a gift from God to give us the greatest pleasure, to help in creating a deep companionship with one's spouse and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this powerful force outside the bounds of marriage, it destroys you and those close to you. Sexual activity for young people arrests their ps...

  1. Supplement Yourself Take calcium and magnesium supplements throughout the month, as these nutrients work in concert to aid muscle relaxation. You should aim for a total of about 1000mg of calcium daily, and up to 500mg of magnesium daily.  If you experience loose stools, reduce the dose. (Note: we recommend you use calcium citrate, because it tends to be more easily absorbed into the system than calcium carbonate.) 2. Try a Tea Raspberry leaf is considered to be a mild uterine tonic. Try a cup of raspberry leaf tea each day throughout the month. It is available at Whole Foods by the company Traditional Medicinals. Keep in mind you are looking for the herbal tea, not raspberry-flavored black tea!                                            ...